I’m getting settled in the routine of “B-i life,” but have noticed dark circles developing under my eyes. Some days are really painful and I spend more time quieting the children and trying to get their attention than actually teaching. When the class is attentive, it’s like a much needed reprieve and I wish I could magically extend those 15 seconds to the rest of the day.
I think the kids are starting to respect me more, but it’s hard to tell. Every day is a coin toss. I’ve been called a “kid-teacher;” I’ve been asked why I’m so short. And just the other day I was asked if I’m a “man” or “girl” because I was wearing slacks and a suit jacket. When I told Monica that I am a girl, she asked, “Teacher, then why you wear man clothes?”
I’ve even learned some new Korean words. A couple that have been extremely helpful are “morayo” (or “molayo”) which translates to “I can’t speak” in English. I say this whenever someone talks to me in Korean…Which brings up another point. I have gotten many funny looks when people realize I can’t speak Korean. A few times, I’ve been asked if I’m Chinese because it seems incredulous that a Korean person can’t speak Korean. A couple of times, cab drivers laughed and muttered who knows what.
I listen to the Korean streaming all around me, hoping that something will click, that somewhere in the recesses of my memory, the language will spark and I will start speaking flawless Korean. I strain to extract phrases, but it’s very difficult – as it is for any foreigner in a new country, the language sounds like gutteral fireworks with changing intonation, a sort of fluid hieroglyphics.
I have also learned the word “yogi,” which I picked up by listening to the only 2 students in the 5-yr-old class talk to each other. It means “here.” Some others are “chongee” which means paper, “anyo” which means no, and “anjah” which means sit.
Give me 5 or 6 months, and I’ll learn an actual phrase. :)
Some of the kids have really uncommon English/American names. Of course, you have your handful of Johnny, Alex and Alice. But then there are names that I have never even heard of, like:
- Annika – she’s sweet & quiet and barely says a word
- Gelasio – he’s round-faced with a Bruce Lee haircut and likes to tell jokes (no longer goes to Bandi)
- Vico – he’s super cute and always shares his snack
- Odette – she’s cute & sweet, and told me once that another kid thought I was “scary teacher but no smile” (meaning I’m not so scary when I smile), so now I make a special effort to smile
- Leo – he’s often in his own world, but he is a sweet boy
- Solomon – one of the youngest students, likes to pretend he’s “angry tiger”
- Joy – he has a wavy mop-top and is very cute. one of the brightest in his class, but never says a word
- Red – he’s one of the loud ones in class, but very bright
All of the students are preparing for the end-of-the-year concert. The school year closes at the end of February in Korea. So we have been practicing our songs – “Bippidy Boppidy Boo,” “L.O.V.E.” and “Doe a Deer.” And of course, there are cute hand movements added in for entertainment. It wouldn’t be a real show without dancing!! (and me dressing up like a bear for the 5-yr-old’s play of the story “We’re Going on a Bear Hunt“).

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January 24, 2010 at 9:26 am
Ajumma
Kristen, I am glad to know that you’re settling in nicely.:) Just wanted to let you know a few corrections on the Korean words:)….
‘Mol-La-Yo’ means ‘I don’t know’.
‘I can’t speak Korean’ is ‘Han Kuk Mal Hal Jul Mol La Yo’
‘Chogi’ means ‘There’.
‘Paper’ is ‘Chong Ee’
‘Sit’ is ‘Ahn Juh’ or ‘Ahn Ju Se Yo (respectful way)’.
January 27, 2010 at 4:48 pm
minikristen
Thanks for your help and clarification, Julie!!
January 31, 2010 at 1:24 pm
Joey
You paint such a lovely picture. Your posts are always so interesting to read and I can’t wait to see more! This could inspire you to write a book or something. Are you doing anything like that?
BTW this is random but are you eating Kimchi over there? I just got into it thanks to the local organic store and must wonder what the real stuff tastes like. I had no idea Korean food was so healthy until very recently.
January 31, 2010 at 3:27 pm
minikristen
Thanks, Joey!! Not sure if my accounts of Korea will make it into a book, but anything is possible. ;)
And I eat kimchi every day. There are many variations of kimchi. Some people add different ingredients. I’m sure what you’re eating is a “real” version of it haha. Korean food is really healthy, you’re right. Although now they have Lotteria (which is their version of McDonalds) and once in a while you can see a McDonalds with a McDrive (drive-thru).